Bereavement: a wound of the heart

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Bereavement is the pain endured further to the demise of a beloved one. It represents a real wound of the heart. Should it erased once and for all? by Father Don Bertrand Lesoing, priest of the sacerdotal Community of St. Martin, and chaplain of the shrine of Our Lady of Montligeon, France. He holds a doctorate of theology, teaches at the community Mother House in Evron, France, and has published several books, the latest is entitled “Dernières nouvelles de l’au-delà (Le Cerf, 2019), particularly aimed at bereaved people.

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